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Hello again, dear heart,
Have you ever felt like you’re walking through life with a stone in your shoe?
It doesn’t stop you. But it slows you.
It reminds you with every step: something still hurts. Something is still there.
That’s what blame feels like.
And I want to talk to you about it.
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Hello, my dear,
Let me tell you a story—not just any story, but one you already know.
It begins in a house where a child learned to shrink. Where laughter felt dangerous. Where love was conditional.
That child may have been you.
And if so, my heart aches with yours. Because too many of us grew up in homes that taught us to survive, not to thrive. Homes where “being good” meant being silent, small, or invisible. Where mistakes were punished, not understood. Where love had rules. And protection came with conditions.
But here’s where the story can change—if you let it.
Continue reading “Our Parents May Have Hurt You—But You Hold the Pen Now By Grandpa Eli”