When Blame Feels Safer Than Healing: A Letter to the Grown-Up Child Still Hurting By Grandpa Eli

Hello there, dear heart.

If you’re here reading these words, it tells me something important: you’ve been hurt. Not just once, not just by circumstance—but by the very people who were supposed to love and protect you. Your parents.

I want to sit beside you for a little while—not with judgment, but with understanding. Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned in all my long years, it’s this:

Blaming your parents might feel safe, but it will never heal you.

Let me explain why.

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